The Shella ship has experienced some ups and downs, but today was more down than up.
Sheggz and Bella had an intense conversation today about how he feels disrespected by Bella. This adds to another complaint where he felt Bella is not putting in as much effort as he is in their relationship. What sparked his current dissatisfaction is a conversation that Sheggz had with Doyin. He told Doyin that Bella said even if things don’t work out between them, they are on television, and other men are watching her.
This rubbed Sheggz up the wrong way so he decided to address the matter with her. The conversation became quite tense, with Sheggz nearly leaving the room.
The pair were in the Bedroom, with Bella calmly sitting on the edge of the bed and Sheggz on his feet, doing most of the talking. When Sheggz called Bella disrespectful, she could not comprehend what she might have done wrong. This upset Sheggz even more as there was no acknowledgment of what she did.
“It is just your aura and your energy,” Sheggz said to Bella, as he explained how she disrespects him. He made an analogy of a box that she should know not to step in because she should know that stepping in the box is wrong.
Bella continued to sit on the edge of the bed without maintaining eye contact like a child getting scolded. Sheggz even told her that when she is older, she will probably figure out what she did wrong.
Sheggz’s usual go-to during a disagreement with Bella involves him moving back to London and leaving her. Today, Bella was over it, and after apologising for disrespecting him, asked him to stop threatening her about leaving because she is not forcing him to stay.
“Can’t people get to London? Is it impossible?” Bella asked Sheggz. Bella eventually told Sheggz that she has a voice in this relationship and has been a mumu for too long.
Watch Sheggz telling Bella she is disrespectful:
The two later reconciled, although Sheggz continued to describe her character as disrespectful. Bella said she will respect him when she knows how he is outside the House.
“You must lower your tone when you talk to me”, Sheggz told Bella at the Kitchen Table as they shared a meal of noodles. The pair later fought about her aggressive responses when Sheggz mentioned that she hates someone in the House. Sheggz called her crazy for always reacting like that and for her constant readiness to fight.
Do you think the ship will eventually sink in the House?